Looks like a summer of church controversy is headed our way with regard to LGBTQ+ issues. I see the United Methodist Church melting down, the Reformed Church in America planning for a gracious division and the CRCNA nervously approaching a major position paper all on this one topic. So how to navigate both inside our local churches, our institutions and our communities as well as the outside world that will evaluate our answers?
As the pastor of a congregation of real people, I have been praying and considering this very question. In that process, I have come to conceive of the challenge as a matter of getting two very tricky things right at the same time. Content and Delivery, I would say. As a local church leader, I want to get right both the Content of my response and the delivery of my response, in order to serve my people well and make the Gospel clear both to us and to those onlookers who will be listening.
Content
This would be the answers to questions that people have, the guidance and counsel I give and the decisions that I and other leaders will invariably have to make. What will the substance of my response in these areas be?
For my part, I want to make sure any Content I have is faithful to the Scripture and respectful of the confessions of my church which are the history of God and His people. I will need to understand the questions that my neighbors are asking, and the answers, often different than mine, that others are offering them. I will want to be clear and understandable in what I say.
But as a follower of Jesus, there is, in fact, content to be faithful to. I want to get that right both for the sake of my listeners and to be faithful to my Redeemer. There are some answers that are simply not mine to make up. I can only deliver them.
Delivery
One of the things that fascinates me most about the Jesus we meet in the Gospels is how able He is to welcome and interact with such a divergent - even conflicting - collection of people. The sick, the sinner and the self-righteous all feel welcome to engage with him. He Himself WAS the message, and He never changed that with anyone. Some would eventually scheme and kill Him for that very message, but He never drove them away, and at least at the beginning, all of those people would seek Him out.
Since His content never changed with the audience, I think what made the way clear for people to engage Him is what I will call "Delivery." There was something in the way Jesus interacted with people, both before and after He actually spoke, that made them want to seek Him out.
He was a good listener. He never shamed anyone. There was an amazing wisdom and clarity of insight in His words. He was "no respecter of persons," is one expression used of Him. All that and more, they willingly came to Him.
I am sad to admit, that such has not always been the case with my interactions. For a variety of reasons, that I seem slow to come to grips with honestly, people who are different than me find it safer to run or fight than to engage.
So, this Delivery element is important. I think we are called to not only deliver the Content that Jesus would, but also with the Delivery that Jesus would. If I get the Content right, I still miss the mark if I don't get the Delivery right as well.
Now, it's also true that if I don't get the Content right, I can't make up for that lack by getting the Delivery right.
Content and Delivery are a Both/And proposition and not an Either/Or. At least if we are going to be faithful to the life and message that we experience in the Gospel of Jesus.
An Example
The Evangelical Presbyterian Church, the denomination in which I am ordained, has attempted to work this "Content & Delivery" approach out on the subject of LGTBQ+ questions in a way that has been very helpful for my own guidance, prayer and ministry. We have a "Position Paper on Human Sexuality" that presents the "Content" - CLICK HERE - concisely with an abundance of Scripture references for further study. That was followed with a "Pastoral Letter on Human Sexuality" that focused on the "Delivery" or better yet, pastoral ministry side. CLICK HERE for that paper - and note that it is nearly ten times longer!
Reflections on The Human Sexuality Report Coming to the CRCNA General Synod in June of 2022
Part of the approaching tumult of the summer that I mentioned in the beginning is related to the paper on Human Sexuality being presented for consideration and adoption to this summer's General Synod of the Christian Reformed Church in Grand Rapids. CLICK HERE to see an Executive Summary (12 pages) and CLICK HERE to look at the full report of 176 pages.
My brief reflections: The committee that was tasked with producing this report was given a challenging charge and overall, in my mind, they did a commendable job. They certainly invested amazing effort. I would support it, if I were a part of the CRC.
That said, it seems very long on Content - 176 pages. Lots of words - even good words - on an explosive topic seem like a setup for confusion and contention, particularly to the outside world.
There are sections on "Pastoral Care" that would speak to the Delivery component in my model. Still, it is the Delivery side that churches have been weakest in the past, that is where our mistakes cause real pain and even harm, and that is where most people - this is certainly the case for me - find it hardest to represent the Gospel well.
At Harderwyk, we are using the Grace & Truth 1.0 material by Preston Sprinkle gather people in a small group setting to reflect and consider how we navigate conversations and relationships related to LGBTQ+ people and issues. CLICK HERE for a link to a previous post on this.
Here's a few questions:
Which of those two - Content or Delivery - is it your more natural response to the questions of our culture? Which of the two is hardest for you to live up to with your neighbors? Where do you most need the work of the Holy Spirit if you are to be more like Jesus in communicating with the people you encounter?
If this has raised some questions for you, feel free to leave a comment or, better yet, let's find a way to talk. Catch me after worship on Sunday perhaps, or call the Harderwyk Ministries office during the week and we can arrange a time to sit down together that works for us both.
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